How Far In Advance Should You Plan Your Wedding? Most couples start planning their weddings 6-12 months in advance. However, some couples plan as far ahead as 2 years. So, how far in advance should you plan your wedding? There is no right or wrong answer – it depends on your unique situation.
If you are the type of person who likes to have a lot of time to plan, then you may want to start planning your wedding a year or more in advance. However, if you are the type of person who prefers to take things one step at a time, then 6-12 months may be enough time for you.
When you sit down to start planning your wedding, one of the first things you should do is figure out how much money you are willing to spend on your big day.
After all, it’s not really about what other people can contribute; it’s about how much YOU (and any co-grooms) are willing and able to pay for! You will want to know this before you make any kind of decision, so having a clear idea of what you can spend ahead of time is crucial. Once you have figured out your budget, find ways that you can save money or cut back throughout the process.
After doing all of the hard work of figuring out your budget, the next step is to start talking with family members about what they might want to contribute. This could be anything from helping to plan the wedding day itself to simply lending a hand on the big day. Don’t be afraid to ask for help – after all, it’s your family who wants to see you get married, not some random strangers!
When it comes to planning a wedding, there are usually a million different things that you could do. But when does it become too much? To avoid overload (and possible bridezilla-ism), try creating a list of priorities at the beginning of your planning process. This will help you focus on the most important things that you need to do, which will help you stay on track.
You don’t want to make the mistake of underestimating how much time this can take (trust us – it’s not fun)! You may start with a list of only 5 or 6 venues, but if you are like most couples, that number might end up in the 30s! Be patient when looking at venues; there is no use in rushing through the process if it means choosing something that doesn’t suit your needs or wants.
After all, your venue is where your entire wedding day takes place!
It’s amazing how many couples have their weddings without deciding on a theme. This can make the planning process much more difficult, as you will need to consider everything from your invitations to your menu! A good way to start is by thinking about colors and styles that appeal to you and then finding decorations and items that reflect this.
After you have decided on your theme, it’s time to start thinking about who will be providing services for your wedding day. This includes everything from your caterer to your florist. Don’t forget to book these vendors as soon as possible, as they will likely be in high demand (especially during peak wedding season!).
If you are anything like us, you want your invitations to be perfect. Don’t waste time ordering them when you are on the verge of panic about the rest of your planning! A good rule of thumb is to order invitations 6-12 months before your wedding day, so they will arrive in plenty of time for you to get thank you cards out.
Even if you aren’t planning on having a traditional guest list, people must know about your big day. If you want people to travel or make other special arrangements for your wedding, then start sending out save the date cards at least 6 months ahead of time (the more notice, the better).
At this stage of the game, you should have a good idea of how much you can spend on your wedding. Don’t forget to factor in things like the cost of postage, wedding favors, and (of course) the alcohol! Once you have a budget in place, try your best to stick with it – after all, no one wants to start their married life in debt!
At this point, you might be getting antsy and ready to set a date for the big day. If that’s the case, then consider planning your honeymoon at the same time! This will allow you to pick a destination that works with both of your schedules and (if needed) allows guests to travel there. Plus, it will give you something fun to do after all of the wedding hooplas are over!
This is probably the most important thing to remember when planning a wedding: it’s supposed to be fun! Yes, there will be stressful moments and disagreements with family members, but at the end of the day, it’s all worth it when you walk down that aisle. So take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy every moment of the planning process!
Modern brides typically purchase their wedding gown between 3 and 2 months before the big day. This will give you plenty of time to have any alterations made, as well as reserve your dress for pick up at the store. A good rule of thumb is to order your dress three months before you need it.
Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, but following these tips should make the process a little easier. Remember to take your time when choosing vendors and venues, and to budget responsibly. Most importantly, have fun with it! After all, it’s your big day.